tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20808560675250228362024-03-19T04:26:41.071-04:00A brighter side of the graveA view of life from the drivers seat of a hearseAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.comBlogger479125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-68723770630836334932015-07-22T20:30:00.000-04:002015-07-22T23:36:54.860-04:00A New Chapter<div dir="ltr">
I've always been an emotional soul. Something that can be challenging working in the funeral business. Growing up in my large Christian family and the Pentecostal Church, I didn't learn not to have feelings; but instead to hide them. A lesson I've tried the last 16 years to unlearn. This last entry in my blog has been two years in the writing. I feel it has been worth it. </div>
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I want to help my father and often feel as though I need to be there every moment for him. But in reality, the best thing I can do for him is show him that I have not given up my own life to take care of him. I have to trust those that I have hired to take care of him and remind myself what living is all about. </div>
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He sat at the breakfast table with his cup in hand and watched out the window as the morning light slowly snuck in and stole the power that the darkness had held over the house and surrounding gardens. It turns out, this would be his last morning at the familiar table. Time has stolen his ability to interact, like a switch that has short circuited, his brain has left us. </div>
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Suddenly, life has drastically changed for everyone involved. We wait patiently as his body dwindles away. We find ourselves longing for an end. The suffering must end. But it goes on. Day after day, we sit by his side. We wonder, is today the day? Or will it be tomorrow's early light that will shine on a new life for us all? The day that will be the beginning of a new chapter. A chapter that doesn't include either of my parents.</div>
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I've been an adult capable of making my own decisions for many years now. But this is the beginning of the chapter where I can no longer call for advice from those that have cared for me my entire life. It's time to take everything I've learned and become an example for someone else. Am I ready? No one ever is. But that's the way life works. Those hidden emotions have become too much for anyone to hide.</div>
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Then, one late evening, when I don't think I can take a moment more, as I sit quietly, holding the hand that gave me life, I feel his life slip away. His last breath was uneventful. Just a shallow, short breath. A breath that was relieving for not only my father but for me. A single breath that would change the way that I see the world. Who knew so much could be contained in such a short breath. In his 89 years, my father had taken countless breaths. Often those breaths preceeded instructions or advice. Now in his short last breath, I find the best advice he's ever given me. "Find yourself", it said. </div>
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And thus has begun the next chapter in my life. At first, I wanted to pass on the things I have learned. But I quickly learned that others will not hear what they need, until the time is right for them. So my lesson in the end was to experience life, for all that it has to offer. There is more to discover than anyone could ever discover. There is more to see than any one person could ever see. It would be best for me to focus on what I can do and see for myself than to try to enlighten the whole planet. I love this quote from JJ Van der Leeuw; The real mystery of life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced. <br />
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So over the two years since my father's death, I have focused on me. I've stopped dying my hair. I've changed my eating habits and focus my attention on toning and conditioning my body. I limit my exposure to the sun and have shed nearly 30 pounds. </div>
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Now, as I care for my aging dog, catering to his every whimper, I find myself more capable of dealing with my impending loss. I feel better physically and have gained great pride in knowing that I have touched the lives of so many people even in the smallest ways. People that I am proud to know and love. I know that I will have many more folks that my life's path will cross in the future and I look forward to each and every one. </div>
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Tonight, as the daylight gives way to the mystery of darkness, and a chill comes through the open window, I ready myself for tomorrow. A new chapter. A new emotionally filled opportunity. And I wish you all happiness.</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-39821876916128879682015-05-08T20:01:00.001-04:002015-05-18T21:49:11.995-04:00History is Expanding!<p dir="ltr">I did not write this, but I found this article from The Onion funny, but true! It does resemble how I tend to think though....</p>
<p dir="ltr">WASHINGTON—Painting a stark portrait of a phenomenon that appears to be irreversible, a report published Thursday by the American Historical Association has found that the past is currently expanding at an alarming rate.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The comprehensive 950-page study, compiled by a panel of the nation’s most prominent historians, warns that the sum total of past time grows progressively larger each day, making it unlikely anything can be done to halt, or even slow down, the relentless trend.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“We believe the past is larger now than it’s ever been before,” said College of William and Mary professor Timothy Gibbon, lead author of the report, observing that whole generations of people have already become a part of history, and that if nothing changes, an untold number more can expect the same fate. “Many things that are in the past today were, during our parents’ and grandparents’ time, still in the present—or even the future. Based on precise measurements of its size, we believe the past has subsumed every single person and event that has ever existed.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">“It’s shocking to contemplate, but in the relatively short stretch since 1984, when I first began tracking its growth, the past has expanded by more than 30 years,” he added.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The report predicted this disturbing pattern will only continue, with one occurrence after another becoming part of a “colossal” historical record that, by all indications, appears intent on seizing absolutely everything without any discrimination. To date, nothing, no matter how significant, has been able to escape the past, which historians say has taken hold of episodes as momentous as the invention of the printing press, the execution of Louis XVI, numerous ice ages, the westward expansion of the United States, and the year 1995, among billions of others.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“This massive, unrestricted accrual of time is quickly becoming unmanageable—it’s growing bigger and bigger even now as I speak,” said Gibbon, who confirmed the past grew by more than six months in the time it took to research and write the new report. “Presidential administrations, extinct species, ancient empires—all have been claimed by a relentless past. There was some speculation that World War II would end history, but it didn’t.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Neither did the moon landing, the signing of the Magna Carta, the formation of Pangaea, the extinction of the dinosaurs, the fall of the Ming dynasty, the breaking apart of Pangaea, or the discovery of the Higgs boson,” he continued. “Indeed, these events have only served to make the past even larger.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">The report went on to state that concerns over the expanding past were outweighed only by fears about the future, which is assumed to become vanishingly small with each passing moment.</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-64915075814044471832015-05-08T19:57:00.001-04:002015-05-08T19:57:32.867-04:00Satanic Yoga?<p dir="ltr">Are they serious?!<br>
I seriously question how these people get to be any sort of authority in any capacity. I know you will join me in shaking my head in disbelief after reading the article that follows.</p>
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<p dir="ltr">(NaturalNews) The successor to Father Gabriele Amorth, the Vatican's former chief exorcist for 25 years, has come out in condemnation of fantasy novels and yoga, declaring both to cause demonic possession. Speaking to <i>The Independent</i> (UK), Father Cesare Truqui explained how the Roman Catholic Church has seen a steady uptick in reports of demonic possession all around the world, and that popular culture pastimes like reading <i>Harry Potter</i> novels and engaging in <i>Vinyasa</i> are largely to blame.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The popularity of many modern television shows, movies and novels that glorify "demonic" creatures such as vampires and magical wizards has apparently led both young and old alike to engage in certain activities that the Vatican says summon satanic spirits, claims Professor Giuseppe Ferrari. Ferrari recently attended a meeting in Rome where Catholic authorities and delegates discussed how to deal with this alleged demonic possession crisis.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Demonic characters in shows like <i>True Blood</i> and <i>The Vampire Diaries</i> are often portrayed as beautiful human beings with desirable characteristics and superpowers, which may lure the unsuspecting into dabbling in the occult. Father Cesare says he's seen many an individual speaking in tongues and exhibiting unearthly strength, two attributes that his religion says indicate the possibility of evil spirits inhabiting a person's body.</p>
<p dir="ltr">"There are those who try to turn people into vampires and make them drink other people's blood, or encourage them to have special sexual relations to obtain special powers," stated Professor Ferrari at the meeting. "These groups are attracted by the so-called beautiful young vampires that we've seen so much of in recent years."</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Is yoga about worshiping Hindu gods, or is it about engaging in advanced stretching and exercise?</b></p>
<p dir="ltr">At its roots, yoga is said to have originated from the ancient worship of Hindu gods, with the various poses representing unique forms of paying homage to these entities. From this, other religions such as Catholicism and Christianity have concluded that the practice is out of sync with their own, and that it may result in demonic spirits entering a person's body.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Others contend that <a href="http://www.naturalnews.com/yoga.html">yoga</a> practice is really more focused on advanced stretching moves and physical exercise, and that it can bring about healing and improved well-being such as improved core strength, better circulation and reduced stress. The intent of the person doing yoga, rather than yoga itself, in other words, is what defines the extent of how the practice influences a person's being and soul.</p>
<p dir="ltr">But Father Truqui sees yoga as being satanic, claiming that "it leads to evil just like reading <a href="http://www.naturalnews.com/Harry_Potter.html">Harry Potter</a>." And in order to deal with the consequences of this, his religion has had to bring on an additional six exorcists, bringing the total number to 12, just to deal with what he says is a 100% rise in the number of requests for exorcisms over the past 15 years.</p>
<p dir="ltr">"The ministry of performing exorcism is little known among priests," stated Father Truqui to <i>The Independent</i>. "It's like training to be a journalist without knowing how to do an interview."</p>
<p dir="ltr">At the same time, Father Amorth admits that the Roman Catholic Church's notoriety for all kinds of perverted sex scandals is also indicative of demonic activity -- he stated that it represents proof that "the devil is at work inside the Vatican."</p>
<p dir="ltr">"There's homosexual marriage, homosexual adoption, IVF [in vitro fertilization] and a host of other things," added Monsignor Luigi Negri, the archbishop of Ferrara-Comacchio, about what he says is evidence of the existential evil in society. "There's the clamorous appearance of the negation of man as defined by the Bible."</p>
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<p dir="ltr"><a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/exorcists-warn-vatican-over-beautiful-young-vampires-and-satanic-yoga-10174001.html">http://www.independent.co.uk</a></p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href="http://sputniknews.com/news/20150414/1020881836.html">http://sputniknews.com</a></p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href="http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-25006926">http://www.bbc.com</a></p>
<p dir="ltr">Learn more: <a href="http://www.naturalnews.com/049612_Vatican_exorcist_yoga_Harry_Potter.html#ixzz3ZauBLEve">http://www.naturalnews.com/049612_Vatican_exorcist_yoga_Harry_Potter.html#ixzz3ZauBLEve</a></p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-15693045013339704382015-04-29T08:58:00.001-04:002015-05-01T01:26:56.505-04:00Rewrite<div dir="ltr">
Like most of us, it's easier for me to see my own flaws than my good qualities. My whole life, I've been teased about being too skinny. While that is probably true, I see things a bit differently. I see my sagging chest and a little roll to my gut. And most of all, I see my lack of chin definition. For my entire life, I've seen this as "Who I Am". I never saw any of that as something that I could change. I even tried to convince myself that I was accepting " who I am ".</div><div dir="ltr"><br></div><div dir="ltr"><br></div><div dir="ltr"><br></div>
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You see, it was programmed into me at a very young age. First, came the food. We learn to eat what our parents feed us. We form habits and preferences before we even know it. I had food allergies from an early age as well that helped to form my self image.</div><div dir="ltr"><br></div>
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And activity plays a key roll in it all too. I've always been pretty active. But never considered myself physical. Friends and family reinforced the thoughts that I had of myself. I would have no fear to try something new. But was always dismissed when I wasn't very good at it. One winter, I remember trying ice skating and found that my ankles kept rolling to the side and I couldn't stand up. I was told that my ankles were weak and was given a pair of double-bladed training skates. Well, that only brought on teasing from the neighborhood kids. I decided that I would rather never ice skate again, than to be picked on for having funny looking skates.</div>
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My sister was always athletic. She's the type that wanted to play baseball with the boys rather than be stuck playing softball with the girls. Mom always backed her on any of the athletic challenges that she decided to tackle. I was tagged along, told to sit quietly and cheer her on. I did play little-league baseball for a couple of years. I was always the one that was stuck in right field and never allowed to shine. I ended up hating baseball, still do. After being teased relentlessly, one practice, I swung the bat and hit the ball over the fence. I then dropped the bat and walked home over a mile. No one could believe it and my mother asked me why I played if I didn't like it. But I felt forced to do it. Forced to live up to the example being set for me by my older siblings. </div><div dir="ltr"><br></div>
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In High School, I decided that this skinny kid would be great at swimming. So, I tried out for the swim team. I won't pretend that I was all that great. But everyone seemed to look up to me for the first time in my life. I stuck with swimming for over a year. But I always felt, less important than my other siblings. Mainly because no one from my family ever showed up to watch me race. Not one! I eventually quit that and never looked back. Many years later, I asked my mother why she never came to see me swim. She said, "When were you on the swim team?" But, in her defense, she underwent a major heart surgery, the year I was on the team. Still, I was a developing young man with no support from home.</div><div dir="ltr"><br></div>
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I'm not telling you all of this to have you feel sorry for me. I'm not telling you this because it's who I am. <i>I am telling you this because it's who I used to be. </i>In the years following the deaths of my parents, I have struggled with finding <i>who I am.</i> Many people go through something similar. Working in the funeral business, I thought I understood what people went through after the loss of a loved one. I was wrong!</div><div dir="ltr"><br></div>
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I have emerged the other side of this fog known as grief, a stronger man. Stronger mentally and physically. I have redefined who I am. I used to joke that I was the fattest skinny guy ever. I wasn't fat, I know that. I was out of shape. My upbringing taught me to accept who I was without question. But never once did I stop to ask myself who that was. I now have found my voice. I've found my inner self. I no longer look at something and think "I can't". Because, <b>I can!</b> I can do anything I desire. </div><div dir="ltr"><br></div>
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I have trimmed down and toned up. Sure, I've lost a little weight. But I've gained so much more. I've gained confidence, pride, and self respect. I've let go of feelings that were holding me back and welcomed challenges that push me further than I ever imagined.</div>
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Life is meant to live. It's meant to explore. My advice to anyone reading this, is to find out who you are, and be you. Who ever you are, no one else can do it better than you can. Some say that life is hard. It's not. Some say life is easy. It's not. Some say life is lonely, tricky or a test. It's not.</div><div dir="ltr"><br>
Life is only a reflection. A reflection of whatever you say and do. Did you ever think, "What if this is all a dream and someday I will wake up"? Well, what if it is? What if you have the ability to steer this dream any way you like? Well, you do. I do. </div>
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High in the mountains of Tibet, where no trees grow and my beautiful dog's ancestors come from, there is a ritual unlike anything we have in the United States. <br />
Take a look at this <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6hSK8CluxQ">video</a> and see what you think about this unique way of moving on from this earth. <br />
I would love to read your thoughts.</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-29451764479388139802015-03-18T04:30:00.000-04:002015-03-18T04:30:02.700-04:00A Desert RetreatI stumbled across this a while ago and absolutely love it.<br />
As a designer myself, I feel that a building should reflect the area around it and those that occupy it. This project by Phillip K Smith in Joshua Tree California truly reflects it's surroundings and encompasses his artistry. Enjoy....<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-80330470154348027402015-03-11T04:30:00.000-04:002015-03-11T04:30:02.156-04:00Can I make my own Casket?<br />
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I can't say that we see a lot of this sort of thing. I know that I've seen several people that buy a casket on line or through a discount store like Walmart or Costco. All I can say about those is that you get what you pay for and don't hold it against the funeral director if things are not up to standards set by yourself. Also sometimes delivery of those caskets can take longer than through our sources, so plan your funeral accordingly and leave plenty of time. Death is never convenient.<br />
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<a href="https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/diycaskets/do-it-yourself-caskets-and-coffins" target="_blank">Do-it-yourself Caskets and Coffins</a><br />
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There is a growing trend in people wanting to be more hands-on when it comes to their loved ones funerals. Just know that there is more to it than most people know. Funeral homes do a lot of work that no one ever sees and in some states, such as Michigan, a funeral director is required by law. You can't just bury grandpa in the field out behind the house anymore. But any director worth dealing with will be happy to customize your funeral as much as you'd like, and not everything comes with a hefty price tag. So go ahead, make your own casket, if you'd like. Or customize one of ours. We don't mind at all. Just keep in mind if you make yours, you'll be looking at it until the day you die.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-77747634218512500722015-03-09T03:30:00.000-04:002015-03-09T03:30:06.214-04:00A New Normal<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibyXfNBtA51_LpH3-Bzn2mlwpkjVNtVL-h4nFWJhgkTrdwWtwgz_FnDQB1eWObK7TKOPTLT2V-XM6PRqqkGo8gXwbQlDMc_t8G_WwW29VtUCWK_Ptze61lhMf-dPHhmkK4cKVHj5qmaB4/s1600/20150304_160935.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibyXfNBtA51_LpH3-Bzn2mlwpkjVNtVL-h4nFWJhgkTrdwWtwgz_FnDQB1eWObK7TKOPTLT2V-XM6PRqqkGo8gXwbQlDMc_t8G_WwW29VtUCWK_Ptze61lhMf-dPHhmkK4cKVHj5qmaB4/s1600/20150304_160935.jpg" height="180" width="320" /></a>On every death certificate that we file, it is required that we list a cause of death. If there are multiple reasons that added up to the impending doom, they must be listed in order of how they came to affect the outcome and how long the person had suffered from each ailment. I know that society thinks that these things are important. There are a constant stream of lawyers on daytime television that encourage us to lay blame on someone else and collect money for their negligence. Now, sometimes a bread-winner for the family is taken and the family is left struggling to supply minimum daily requirements. So I can see where such things are necessary. The <i>loss</i> of a loved one can be tragic, I know. It changes your whole life. Everything that you know has a new normal. Nothing will ever be the same.<br />
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Recently a friend telephoned me to inform me that his father had died. Devastating news, no doubt. My heart poured out to my friend and his family. It hasn't been that long since my own mother and father passed away and my friend was there for me and my family in our time of change. There is nothing that can prepare you for the <i>loss</i> of a parent. In fact, my first response after hanging up, was to call my mother who was friends with my friend's father. You never really get used to them not being there.<br />
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My friend is a doctor and had told me that his father had called to say that he was coming in because he wasn't feeling well. Then on the way to the office, was in a car accident and died just a few hours later. While visiting with my friend's mother, she emphatically insisted that he died in a car accident. Let me state that I have not seen the death certificate. But regardless of what it says, I wonder if it matters.<br />
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I'm not just talking about this one case either. My friends father was 84 years old. He had lived a great life, giving life to seven wonderful children of his own and many grandchildren. He lived his whole life for those children. He was a kind, loving man that all the neighborhood kids loved. He lived the life that he wanted to live and taught those around him to enjoy their own lives. Why must we place blame on how he died, instead of celebrating that he lived.<br />
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We are each given a life to live. We are distributed our challenges to cope with. It is our decisions along the way that build our tomorrows and shape the lives of those that depend upon us. Why isn't it enough that we have lived. My own parents were met with many challenges over their time on earth. It was their choices that got them to where they were. It was their choices that helped to shape me and my brothers and sisters into what we have become. Could they have made different decisions that would have worked out better in one way or another? Of course! But it was their lives to live and I am glad that they made those choices along the way.<br />
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Life is going to be different for my friend's mother. Daily life has changed immensely. All I'm saying is to be grateful for all the years that they had. Celebrate what they made together. Know that each moment in the future has been shaped by those moments of the past. Believe whatever you want about the afterlife, just don't forget to enjoy the present life while we have it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-35715690946002919802015-03-04T23:30:00.000-05:002015-03-04T23:30:00.864-05:00One More For The RoadWith a promise of warmer weather, I have mixed feelings.<br />
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My business is based on making the funeral homes where I work look good. So it is my responsibility to make sure that every family has a clean funeral coach (hearse) to carry their loved one to the grave. While this sub-zero weather that we've had all during the month of February has been brutal and difficult to cope with at times, at least everything is frozen solid and I can deliver a clean coach to the site of the funeral, provided I can wash it and not have it freeze solid. Now, as the temperatures rise, the snow and ice begin to melt. This causes puddles along the roadways that are a mix of dirty slush and salt. When splashed upon my shiny black coaches makes for a disgusting mess unfit for even the foulest of villain's funerals, let alone a dearly loved mother of four.<br />
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It started snowing about the same time that we pulled the coach out of the garage. Just the day before I had cleaned the Black Pearl, as we call it, and I was proud to send it to service another grieving family. By the time we reached the funeral home 15 miles away, all you could see was white. The farm fields gave way to the sky and the whole thing disguised the road with it's white cloak. We watched as nature buried us deeper and deeper. By the time the service was over and we processed to the cemetery, the snow had changed to freezing rain, coating all that white with a slick gloss. We turned into the cemetery following the director in his van. Twenty SUV's and trucks trailing behind. As the terrain rolled first down and then up, I noticed that the directors van was sliding sideways down the hill into the snow bank. With multiple vehicles still blocking the busy road behind us and nowhere to turn, myself and several family members quickly came to the rescue pushing his van out of the way.<br />
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The coach made it up the hill just fine and we placed bets on each vehicle as it rounded the curve and approached the hill. All in all, there were five that got stuck. Many people trudged through the cemetery on foot after leaving their stuck vehicle. Finally, we gathered around the grave and carried the man to his final resting place.<br />
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After prayers had been said and flowers placed on the casket as a farewell, we began the process of getting everyone back on the road and headed to the luncheon that had been prepared. Last was the director, still stuck at the back of the cemetery, down the hill. It was a long push up the hill, but we got him to safety. Keep in mind when painting this picture in your head, that the entire time, we are wearing nice black suites and overcoats.<br />
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By the next morning, it had been above freezing for most of the night and almost all of yesterdays snow had disappeared. With the Great Melt of 2015 at hand, the roads are a sloppy mess and the rivers are filling to capacity fast. Now I just need to figure out how to get the Black Pearl cleaned for the next service.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-16570976853195664422015-03-04T15:28:00.001-05:002015-03-04T17:58:13.772-05:00Meanwhile<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
January 26, 1837 is the date that Michigan became a state. For anyone living in Europe, that may not seem like long, long ago. But here in Michigan, if you find anything that is from 1850 or before, you've found a treasure. Before statehood, this was a harsh land of few rules or laws. There was an abundance of white pine forest and what seemed like a never ending supply of fur. There was debate as to whether the land belonged to the United States or to Canada. Either way, the Great Lakes made for easy transportation of goods to points West like Chicago. At one point there was an attempt to dig a canal that connected the Clinton River on the East side of the state with the Kalamazoo river on the West side. Such a canal would have made for an express route to Chicago for sure. But it proved to be too much of an undertaking and the idea gave way to the railroad.</div>
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Much of the railroad system that criss-crossed the state has now been turned into hiking and biking trails. It seems that the Interstate Highway systems have overtaken the transportation needs of the state.</div>
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Just a few miles from my house, one can still find the remains of the now defunct canal that once planned to cut across our state from Lake Michigan to Lake St.Clair. Also right next door to our other home, is the start of one of the many rails-to-trails bike paths. We are very fortunate to be surrounded by so much history. To ride these trails can be a relaxing day in nature as much as a lesson in the history of our great state.</div>
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I've written before that Thomas Alva Edison lived his boyhood in Port Huron. Port Huron is one of the great cities that I have the honor of working in a funeral home that was built by a lumber baron in 1850. I love working in the old home with all of it's creaky floors and beautiful windows.<br />
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Port Huron sits at the base of Lake Huron and has made a perfect place for centuries to cross the narrow river from Michigan into Ontario, Canada. There is impressive side by side bridges connecting the two as well as a tunnel for train traffic to cross beneath the swift current of the river.<br />
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From that train tunnel, one can access Toronto to the East and Detroit and Chicago to the West. When Thomas Edison was only 12 years old, he worked on the train that went from Port Huron to my home town of Mount Clemens, 30 miles away, selling newspapers to the passengers. He was credited for saving the life of another young man when the boy fell and young Tom pulled him to safety from between the moving train cars.<br />
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Directly under the bridges that join the two countries in Port Huron is a train station, preserved and commemorating young Tom's boyhood achievements with a statue that was created by a friend and good client of mine, standing outside between the tracks and the shore.<br />
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A little more discreet, is a similar train station in Mount Clemens. It is now a registered historic place and houses a museum dedicated to the transportation needs of the state over time.<br />
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We decided to go out to lunch at a converted fire house across the street from the train station and were graced with a train to be doing some switching by the station. So we decided to check the place out.<br />
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We were surprised at the amount of history that was packed into such a tiny building hidden from view of the daily commuters. We will definitely be back when the weather is more fitting for looking around.<br />
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And we look forward to exploring more of the amazing trails that once were hidden from view, only to be seen by rail men and massive train cars. I've heard there are numerous tresses and bridges that decorate the open farm land and wooded forest along the way. Paying homage to the past, respecting nature and reinvigorating the soul to give strength for the future; This is my church.<br />
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It was a Saturday evening and Savannah had come to life.</div>
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The city was everything you would expect.</div>
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With quaint shops, bars, bistros and street music everywhere.</div>
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We explored quite a bit before deciding on a place to eat dinner.</div>
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There were many choices.</div>
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From the trendy bistros,</div>
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tourist traps like the Pirate's House,</div>
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upscale places like the Pink House,</div>
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and even Paula Dean's place; Lady and Son's</div>
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We sampled pralienes at a candy shop before deciding on this</div>
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The stone streets can be treacherous if you've had too many drinks</div>
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Finally, we met up with our Ghosts and Gravestones Tour.</div>
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Pictures were difficult and I decided to enjoy the experience.</div>
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We also learned of the architecture that graces this cities streets and squares.</div>
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These streets along the river front were built with the ballast stones from ships. The ships would come from England with the stones for weight in the bottom and return filled with goods such as cotton, textiles, peanuts, pecans and of course peaches to name a few things.<br />
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The ship yards could flood with the tides and hurricanes so they are much lower than the city streets and are accessed by these "historic"(use at own risk) steps.<br />
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Sunday morning shown a different light on this enchanted city.</div>
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All the partying of the night before gave way to church bells and finely dressed folk </div>
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walking the many city squares.</div>
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James Oglethorpe, founder of the city of Savannah would be proud of what I saw on this day.</div>
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A city built around squares.</div>
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Each square then is essentially a city park.</div>
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There are now 12 squares in the city as well as a larger park.</div>
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These squares make the city confusing to navigate with a car.</div>
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But very friendly to a pedestrian.</div>
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Even if they look like these two Yankees...</div>
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The Mercer/ Williams house.</div>
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Built by Hugh Mercer, and encompassing an entire city block, Hugh never lived here.</div>
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But his grandson Johnnie Mercer did.</div>
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It's a grand home situated on a quiet square.</div>
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Thanks to Jim Williams, it was restored after years of neglect.</div>
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Today it is a museum </div>
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honoring the great Johnnie Mercer.</div>
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and is in the opening scenes of the movie.</div>
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And here we have more interesting architecture and creative uses for things</div>
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that have no other use today.</div>
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We could have stayed and explored this town for days or even weeks. </div>
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You know, the funny thing is, in spite of the euphoria one feels upon entering paradise, surrounded by miracles and unimaginable beauty, it gradually becomes all they know, commonplace, ordinary and even shockingly invisible. As beautiful as I found Savannah to be, if I lived there, it would become just that; invisible. </div>
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Each day, we are each surrounded by beauty. We are so fortunate to be living where we do. Perhaps you don't think you can afford to explore the world like I am doing. But you can open your eyes to the beauty that is all around you. Learn about the history that is only steps outside your door. </div>
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Sometimes as I drive past the large hotel near the garage where I keep the hearses, I wonder "Who would come to stay here?" Then I remember just how wonderful this place really is and wonder why there aren't more tourist. History, architecture, murder and discovery have happened everywhere on this earth. </div>
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-80300122842584328922015-02-03T21:01:00.000-05:002015-02-05T12:08:25.158-05:00Eat Your Desert FirstIt was a bitter cold winter day about a year ago. The kind of day that causes a person to ponder why they've chosen to live in a place that makes their face hurt when they go outside. And further question why they have chosen a career that leaves them standing in a blistery parking lot on such a day. I knew then, it would be a long time before the thoughts that were running through my head would come to be a reality. But, I thought them all the same. You see, as surely as mountains are to be climbed and oceans sailed, your dreams are meant to come true. This is why we are here; to live the life of our dreams. Not to be tested, challenged and tried. But to conquer, champion and rule. So, I press on, knowing that the day must dawn when my thirsts shall be quenched and my dreams will come true. Never to settle for less or ever think it's too late. And to never, ever compromise a dream.<br />
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When I start planning one of my adventures, I never know how it's going to happen. I just start moving in that direction. I don't worry about the details of how. My only concentration is, what am I going to do when I get there? What wonderful memories will I take away from this adventure?<br />
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We left home at about 10PM. My apologies to anyone who lives in Ohio, but frankly, that state is flat and boring and I've seen it too many times to count. By starting out at night, we were through O-boring-O and even Kentucky before daylight revealed the frozen cliffs of Tennessee.<br />
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We put a lot of miles and a few kilometers on my little car on that first day. We reached our first destination just before sun down the following day. It was not our final destination. And it was not the destination that I had dreamed of. But, I don't worry about the "hows", I just enjoy the drive. It was a destination that was tacked on like a desert to a great meal. And my grandmother always said to eat your desert first because it's the best part. So we did. That destination was Savannah Georgia.<br />
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Over the years we've heard a lot about Savannah.<br />
With it's warm temperature and even warmer Southern charm, it's Spanish moss covered Oak trees and storied past called out to us. It's history of being known as the countries most haunted city, made it a natural place for us to investigate for a few days. Like many people, we fell in love with Savannah after the book and movie "Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil" came out in the 90's. It's a true(ish) story of murder in the midst of the elite class in the quaint city in the early 80's.<br />
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Our first stop, as usual, was a cemetery. Bonaventure Cemetery is where the cities elite are known to be buried. It is featured in the movie and although it has been since moved, is the original location of the bird girl statue that is featured as the cover art for both the book and the movie. While much of the artistry of the tombstones are typical of the times from which they come, there are many unique pieces throughout that draw much attention if for no other reason than their beauty. Set against a backdrop of Spanish moss covered lanes, each families plot resembles a garden of it's own. <br />
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Many beautiful monuments in this cemetery were made by John Walz and many of them depict women with their bare feet exposed. The faces are actual images of the deceased.<br />
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While John Walz carved elaborate monuments for families grieving their lost loved ones. The only marking at his grave is the step that marks the entrance to his family plot. He said his work for others is enough of a monument for him.</div>
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The wife's grave would typically look like this.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizy6FSJMA1Xt3yQVKWQFRP1uw9C9fxDmf5PcTT0NVk6t45zMAOGn0BQiGqR7KuOAXaKMFYeac9CCyXjR35-YYWbOEVLPucKv1fsfrvtvfOFhOaFxfAa4R1imllL-z5nMTpG2kp8ljXuOY/s1600/DSCF1232.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizy6FSJMA1Xt3yQVKWQFRP1uw9C9fxDmf5PcTT0NVk6t45zMAOGn0BQiGqR7KuOAXaKMFYeac9CCyXjR35-YYWbOEVLPucKv1fsfrvtvfOFhOaFxfAa4R1imllL-z5nMTpG2kp8ljXuOY/s1600/DSCF1232.JPG" height="240" width="320" /></a></div>
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Johnnie Mercer was a well known song writer. His home in Savannah is the setting for the murder that happened in 1981 that is the basis for the book and movie that I mentioned above.</div>
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Jim Williams, a well known antiques dealer/ restorer was the owner of the home at the time and was the center of the story.</div>
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If you haven't seen the movie, I would highly recommend it.</div>
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Johnnie Mercer was famous for many, many songs. They are listed here on this bench. The words cover all sides of this bench and I am sure that you know most all of them and even more sure that you will be singing at least one in your head after looking more closely.<br />
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In my next post, we will visit some of Savannah's historic city and the Mercer/ Williams home.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-64235107321452608742015-01-12T23:35:00.000-05:002015-01-12T23:35:41.032-05:00Checking Off the Bucket ListThe past year has been a year of growth. I've grown emotionally, spiritually and I've grown my business to something that I had only dreamed of in the past. But that's my point here with so many of my blog post. What we dream of; what we think of, if you stick with it, will become a reality. Today, I stunned my accountant with the numbers that I placed on her desk. And with current trends and projected growth, I am becoming more and more proud of what I have going.<br />
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Unfortunately, this blog has suffered as the business has grown. I seem to have less and less time to collect my thoughts and produce quality content. I know, this is my blog and I can do anything I want with it. Well, I want to produce quality content. I want to help people through the blog, much the same as I do in the world every day. Be it regular readers, casual visitors or the random stranger stopping by, if you are going to spend your valuable time reading what I have to write, then I feel that it is worth my time to write something worth reading.<br />
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Life is an adventure. And as hard as I work, I enjoy getting away from the work too. I am working on some ideas for future post. But, they are all going to have to wait a couple of weeks as it seems that another <i><a href="http://www.royalcaribbean.com/findacruise/ships/class/ship/home.do?shipClassCode=VI&shipCode=EN&br=R" target="_blank">enchanted</a></i> adventure has called my name and I must answer it. And this one's been on my bucket list for a long while. I can't believe that I've manifested it into a reality.<br />
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I'll catch up with everyone in a couple of weeks!<br />
Bye for now.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-52479244109913692312015-01-06T17:21:00.000-05:002015-01-14T20:22:04.413-05:00I Slit My Wrist !This past Christmas day, I slit my wrist.<br />
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It's true. Ed was 30 minutes away watching his dad for three days. There was no business for me to do because cemeteries are closed on holidays. I was home alone. With only my trusty dog Pugsley to keep me company and he sleeps most of the day in his old age. I was bored and decided to go into the bath/laundry room. Looking at the cabinets hanging on the wall above the washer and dryer, that served almost no purpose at all, I decided that I had had enough. I got out a screw driver, hammer and pry bar and started ripping the cabinets apart. When I came to a three inch long screw that broke off in the wall, holding a brace to the drywall, the pry bar became my best friend and worst enemy. With a quick push at one end, the screw came loose, the board went flying and the sharp edge of the pry bar found a vein in my left wrist. Before I even knew that the screw came out, the blood was dripping on top of my new washing machine. A steady stream started flowing and left a trail across the wood floor to the white bath tub nearby. A towel and tight pressure was very quick to follow. Running through my mind was, how do I explain this at the Emergency room? Home alone on a Christmas day and I decided to slit my wrist. Fortunately, the cut was not deep enough to continue bleeding more than a few minutes. I wrapped my wrist tightly and continued my project.<br />
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I had already purchased the new cabinets from IKEA and went ahead and put them together. I was proud of myself for getting them hung on the wall by myself as well. The cabinet doors had to be ordered and were delivered just today. I am quite proud of yet another project that I accomplished single handed. And most of this one was in fact, single handed.<br />
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I must also add that my wrist is healing nicely. Only a slight scar to remember Christmas 2014 by.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-29709245441352498462015-01-01T06:00:00.000-05:002015-01-01T06:00:07.432-05:00Dawn of a New YearThe last few days of 2014 found me driving everywhere around southeast Michigan. Anyone who follows me on facebook has seen only a few of the many places that I have been lately. A recap of the years financial statement has proven 2014 to be my best year ever with the company and I am looking forward to more growth in 2015, without the compromise of quality to the funeral homes that I serve.<br />
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While the rest of the world celebrated the end of a year last night and ushered in a new year, I was able to finish up the evening's driving jobs and make it home before the fireworks started, and was able to enjoy some quality time with some close friends.<br />
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I've spent the better part of the last year focusing my attention on moving on from the past. Putting the haunting ghost of many things behind me. It was only in the last few days that I realized that by focusing on putting it all behind me, I was in fact, dragging it along into the future.<br />
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So today, as the sun rises on a new year, instead of focusing on moving on from the past, I am making the decision to instead, be welcoming of the future. I know it's a minor technicality to some, but I feel that it will be the difference that I need in my life. I will focus my attention on the good things, paying no mind to the evils from my past or any time for that matter.<br />
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So I start today, like many, watching the sun rise. It is a reminder for me to always look for the brighter side of life. Each day I am given the chance to do something. It is my choice what I do with all 365 days of 2015.<br />
And I hope that all my readers can find time each day to focus on the things in life that are going right. It can only be a great year, my friend, if we make it a great year. If you are looking for a better year or even a better day, then welcome to the Brighter Side of the Grave.<br />
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I want this to be a place where we can all come to share the little things in life that are going right. Not to brag. But to share our thoughts about what makes this world so wonderful to be a part of this year.<br />
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It is going to be a great year. I've got lots of wonderful adventures planned and I'm looking forward to sharing them all with you.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-73178323301250823572014-12-27T07:00:00.002-05:002014-12-27T07:00:55.466-05:00A Great Loss to the Community <br />
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Another great life has come to an end.<br />
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I first came to know Quinnie Cody when I was a young man.<br />
He was the mayor of the town that I grew up in.<br />
Over the years he did many good things not only for Mount Clemens, but the neighboring communities.<br />
Mayor in our town is not a paid position and doesn't come with a lot of perks. But Quinnie had a passion for politics and a love for his city.<br />
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As he aged and stepped out of the public spot light, I, like most, lost track of him. But that's when I met Dawn. Dawn took care of my own father in his last year and simultaneously took care of Mr. Cody. When we lost my dad a year and a half ago, Dawn focused her attention on Mr. Cody. He has been her neighbor and friend most of her life. Dawn has also been working for me driving my funeral coaches for the last year and has been an excellent addition to our company.<br />
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When Mr. Cody passed, it was Dawn and I that had the privilege to transport him to the funeral home.<br />
And Dawn and I will chauffeur him to church today and then to his final resting place.<br />
At his visitation yesterday, it seemed that anyone who was anyone in our small town was there and we are looking forward to a packed house at the church today. It has been a great honor to serve this family, as it is all of the families that we work for.<br />
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The gentlemanly mayor of Mount Clemens, Quinnie Cody, who served until 2005, died at his home Monday evening. He was 93.</div>
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Cody presided over the city when it began making a comeback in the late 1980s and again when it established an image as a popular nighttime hotspot in the early 2000s.</div>
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"We've always had our ups and downs as a city but most of the years when Quinnie was mayor we were doing pretty well," said incumbent Mayor Barb Dempsey, who served with her predecessor for six years on the Mount Clemens City Commission. "He was kind of the glue that held us together."</div>
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Cody served as mayor for 14 years between 1987 and 2005. His reign as mayor of the county seat was not consecutive but he also sometimes ran unopposed. A Mississippi native, Cody's hallmarks were his dapper dress - always in a suit and tie, often wearing a hat - and his easy-going manner.</div>
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"Quinnie Cody was a true Southern gentleman who treated everyone with kindness and respect," said Grace Shore, CEO of the Mount Clemens-based Macomb County Chamber of Commerce. "He really loved the city of Mt. Clemens. He was an asset to our community and will be greatly missed."</div>
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The mayor's community activities included 59 years as an usher and parish member at St. Peter Catholic Church in downtown Mount Clemens, and a longtime member of The Old Crowd. A World War II veteran, Cody was also a member of the American Legion Post 4. In recent years, his health began failing and he was less visible around town.</div>
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Mount Clemens City Commissioner Gary Blash, who first became friends with Cody many years ago while the two served in The Old Crowd, said the mayor deserved his nice-guy image but he also had a temper that sometimes reached its breaking point when someone crossed him.</div>
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"The city has lost a true gentleman. He was always very gracious, though he also was quite a character. I enjoyed being around him," said Blash the former city assessor, a post he now holds in Fraser. "But … you knew what line not to cross. He was definitely a man of conviction. When he was committed to an issue he would vehemently defend it."</div>
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Dempsey said Cody was fond of remarking, "dag nabbit" at commission meetings when he was unhappy with the way the proceedings were going. But he also had his progressive side, insisting that women play a role in city government.</div>
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He convinced Dempsey to get involved, initially by encouraging her to take a spot on the city recreation board.</div>
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"Quinnie was instrumental in getting me in politics, first by convincing me to run for the commission. That was 16 year ago. He said (former commissioner) Nancy Dedenbach was not running again and that we need another woman on the commission," said Dempsey, who just began her 10th year as mayor.</div>
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Cody is survived by his wife, Jeannette, four children, 20 grandchildren and a great-grandchild.</div>
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Funeral home visitation will be from 2 to 9 p.m. Friday at Will and Schwarzkoff Funeral Home, 233 Northbound Gratiot, Mount Clemens. A funeral mass will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday at St. Peter.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-5818207667352246262014-12-21T22:47:00.000-05:002014-12-21T22:47:06.559-05:00Letters from the PastOne little project. I'm working on a quick project in the house, and suddenly the whole house is a disaster.<br />
I start looking for one item and I find twelve others that I didn't know I was even looking for. Then I ran across a box filled with items from my past. I could have pushed the box aside and told myself to stay focused. But I knew that if I forced myself to deal with these ghost that have been hiding under my bed, I could move on to the next part of my life more easily. So I dug.<br />
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At the time, I'm sure that there was reasons for all the stuff that I've saved. Sometimes I saved things because my mother told me that one day I would want them. Well Mom, I've been sorting through <i>your</i> stuff for 3-1/2 years now, thinking to my self the whole time, "Why would someone save this?" But since important things seem to be mixed in with garbage, the sorting continues. And so does the sorting of my own things.<br />
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In this box tonight, I ran across some old correspondences from a pen-pal that I had when I was 10 through 12 years old. I wish I could see what I wrote to this kid. Because the things that he wrote to me were so off the wall and so unrelated to my life. I really don't know how that whole thing went on for over two years. Long before the days of the internet, letters took a few days to send from place to place. Then there was usually response time and mailing back. And throw in the fact that my parents taught me the lesson of the dollar by making me buy my own stamps and I think I see how it lasted so long.<br />
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It was funny to read some of the letters that I received. He would write about his beer can collection or the fish that he caught in the river. He wrote of dirt bikes and dead bug collections too. None of these things has ever caught my interest. Ever. Then he ended most of the letters with, "I've run out of words". Children are funny and I'm sure that I was no exception to that rule. I know that there was a lot of stupid things that came out of my mouth as a child and even as an adult. As technology has brought us to blogging, Youtube, Twitter, Tumbler, Pinterest and a half dozen other social networks that I know very little about, I have to wonder how much we've learned. Or are we all just silly kids talking about our beer can collections.<br />
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I've run out of words.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-18884359300783276492014-12-20T23:19:00.000-05:002014-12-20T23:19:22.403-05:00Spoiler Alert!I lead a busy life. I don't think that I've watched anything live on television in a long time.<br />
For the past several seasons of Survivor and The Amazing Race, someone, somewhere has told me who won the shows top prizes. Don't get me wrong, I love when people talk about the show. It creates a little more hype and gives me incentive to watch. But inevitably, someone will spill the beans as to the outcome.<br />
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I am thankful to say that it did not happen this time around for either show. I will say that both shows had some crazy twist at the end that I did not see coming, and I'm not sure that I like the results. But, they are what they are and I will accept that. And, I won't spill the beans.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-69172662591034710002014-12-05T05:30:00.000-05:002014-12-05T05:30:00.801-05:00Let Me GoEveryone on this earth is born. And we each much also die. It may not be convenient for those left behind to mourn, but it is something that we all must do.<br />
I do a lot of services for people whom have lived long and full lives. Those services are truly a celebration of life. Unfortunately, there are services for people who's lives seem way too short and often it seems unfair that it has come to what appears to be an untimely end.<br />
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Recently, CBN televangelist Pat Robertson proclaimed that "God has given us the ability to raise the dead, we just aren't using it."<br />
And now there is a group called "The Dead Raising Team" that claims that they have performed a dozen resurrections. And finally, a family in Hamilton Ontario Canada kept their dead husband and father in their home since March, praying that he would be brought back to them. <a href="http://www.calebwilde.com/2014/12/for-six-months-a-family-in-canada-attempted-to-resurrect-their-dead-husband-and-father/" target="_blank">Here's the story</a> from Caleb Wilde of Confessions of a Funeral Director.<br />
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I know everyone loves me. But I have one request.<br />
Be it 50 years from now or tomorrow, Let Me Go.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-8231024014708744472014-12-03T20:09:00.001-05:002014-12-03T20:09:07.301-05:00Good News<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
I'm always looking for a little good news; something to brighten my day, here on the brighter side.</div>
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Lately I've been looking forward to each week when a new episode of Russell Howard's Good News comes out on YouTube.</div>
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-68111534572121148992014-12-01T04:30:00.000-05:002014-12-01T04:30:00.080-05:00White FrogsI was just pleasantly surprised by a random movie recommended to me by Netflix. I had a night to myself. With Pugsley by my side, I turned up the heat, got comfortable and decided to see what this technology that I pay for each month would bring me. I'm so out of touch with entertainment that I let the computer choose my entertainment. What it brought me was a small movie called White Frogs. For most of the movie, I had no idea what the title was about. But then as all the pieces started coming together, one of the characters conveyed this story....<br />
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Grandma would tell a story of growing up in Viet Nam, that people would eat coconut frogs. Yeah, coconut, and frogs. She said her mother would take a coconut and make a small slit in it and insert a tadpole from the river. The tad pole would live inside that coconut for a few weeks. Then when the coconut was split open, you would find a blind frog with white skin. The frog had the smoothest skin and the sweetest, softest coconut flavored meat.<br />
Most of us live life, like one of those tad poles, growing up in a strange world that never seemed right. Trying our best to fit in. To grow into a frog. Our parents wanted us to be perfect. They had an idea of what perfect was. But in the end, we don't deserve to live in a coconut. No one deserves that.<br />
I am not a white frog. I will not be a white frog, even if we are weird, different or strange. Because everyone is weird, different and strange.<br />
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I could relate so much with this story and these characters. Growing up I felt like so much was expected of me. Doctrine was instilled and I was marinated in beliefs that are not my own. I could see glimpses of the outside world, but was protected from them and led to believe that it was all evil. I watched how these beliefs effected each of my siblings differently. I am happy to say that I now have a balanced knowledge and understanding of each of them as well as most of the world. I am thirsty to learn even more each and every day.<br />
This little tad pole will not reach the end of it's life with perfect white skin and tender meat for the masses to feast on. No, it's going to continue to be a turbulent river with sunshine, rain, rocks and sand for me. Life will not devour me. Instead I will reach the end with a loving knowledge of hope for all that come after me.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-15101563699528265332014-11-27T06:00:00.000-05:002014-11-27T06:00:00.067-05:00Mental EnergyToday we have rain. I wrote this a few days ago and have obviously survived....<br />
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While I type this, there are huge flakes of snow cascading from the heavens, falling gently on anything and everything that is outside. I work outside. Morning promises to be a little more challenging than the mornings of recent days. Hollywood would paint a picture of serenity and peace with the falling snow. But as a professional driver, I see the reality of shoveling, plowing and idiot drivers on the road that don't know how to prepare for such beauty and serenity. I can handle it. I've been doing this professionally for 20 years. If I prayed, I would pray that the less prepared people would all be safe in the morning.<br />
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To continue my series on making a positive change in one's life, I come to Mental Energy. Once you've eliminated the negativity and prepared your body with rest, nutrition and exercise, you need to make sure that you are mentally prepared for your new success. Mental energy can come from passion, emotion and motivation. It results from either the search for pleasure or to avoid pain. Yes, pain. Often we are motivated by fear. It could be a threat of unemployement or actual physical pain.<br />
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A good vocabulary isn't a must, but a bad vocabulary can certainly hurt you. Surrounding yourself with people that talk poorly of you will only bring you down. But in contrast, if people encourage each other to always do a little better, what happens is, well, people do better.<br />
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What would your life's soundtrack be like? Does the music that you listen to lift your spirits? Does it give you the mental energy that you need to complete your task? Each person is very different. What lifts your spirits may be just the thing that brings mine down. In a day when people seem to be obsessed with music, it's a good idea to have a playlist that will help get you through the tough spots. ( A playlist is like a modern day mix-tape ) Make up a playlist for exercising. Make up something to help you relax. What does your work day sound like. Each of these things can be quite different. Music to help you prepare for a meeting will be different than a night out with friends. And for some, such as myself, quiet time will go far in helping to get things done. I'm the kind of person that really listens to the music. I can't help but to dance, even if it is just in my thoughts. So to concentrate, I turn everything off.<br />
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One more way to gain mental energy is to turn to your beliefs. Regardless of your religious affiliations, everyone believes something. Whatever that might be, to spend a little time reflecting on those beliefs, gives you a chance to center yourself mentally and prepare for whatever you are about to tackle.<br />
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To summarize, if you have a lofty dream, you must pursue it with passion and urgency, or you will run out of fuel to complete the journey. And if you don't have a driving purpose in life, begin the journey of self discovery today. The Law of Energy says: Human life is sheer physical, mental and spiritual energy. The force for living is abundant in the universe, but may be hidden as mere potential or expressed as kinetic energy. Pursue your goals through a balance of physical, mental and spiritual energy.<br />
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I am prepared for what tomorrow holds. Plenty of rest, a good meal and a clear state of mind is a great way to start any day. Snow can be quite peaceful.<br />
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Have a great day friends.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-87235108887418785802014-11-25T21:17:00.001-05:002014-11-25T21:26:17.858-05:00Does it Stink in Here?I love my cars. My long black shiny cars. I am very proud of them. I take very good care of them. They are not only very expensive, but they are how I earn my living.<br />
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There are other hearse lovers out there. But I really don't think that they love hearses for the same reasons as I do. I love what we do in my business. We bring a little dignity to an otherwise gruesome experience. We honor the deceased with the finest available for the budget we are given. Whatever that budget may be. I am very proud to be entrusted to drive your loved one to their final resting place. I take my job very seriously and operate with caution and care, every inch of the way.<br />
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I feel that these hearse lovers care more about the gruesome side of death and the fact that many people seem to be afraid of their hearse. They use them for shock value. They pick them up cheaply after their life in the industry has ended. They take them to the grocery store or go camping in them. They put zombie stickers in the windows and drive around with coffins in the back. They paint flames down the side and put giant speakers in the back deck. Now I admit that I have been to Hell. Hell Michigan that is for the hearse show held each year before Halloween. It can be fun, but it should not be a way of life.<br />
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I operate my funeral coach for funerals only. You will only see it when I am on my way to a funeral, doing a funeral or on my way back to the garage. You will never see it at Mac Donald's. The only place I ever stop is the gas station or car wash. And when I do stop, there is never a body on board. EVER!<br />
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Still, the car wash attendants will peek in the back cautiously or I will get odd comments at the gas station. And NO, it doesn't "freak me out to drive that thing".<br />
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A hearse is typically the cleanest car you will ever see. Even if a funeral home uses it as a first call vehicle, it must be clean come the next funeral. NO there are no fowl smells!<br />
I recently went around a few times with an on-line forum about how to get the formaldehyde smell out of a hearse a guy had just purchased. I assured him that it was not embalming fluid that he smelled. He more likely smelled cleaning chemicals. To remedy that, simply use hydrogen peroxide and fresh air. Of course throughout the forum, I was told that I know nothing about the funeral business or how it works and that bodies leak fluids all the time. One guy insisted to use Pine-sol because it's the only thing that will cover the smell.<br />
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Why?! Why are these people so stupid and yet still allowed to breath the same air as sane people?<br />
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Let me be perfectly clear here. I do not haul bodies. I transport people whom have recently deceased. These are people that should always be treated with dignity. The day I start thinking otherwise, is the day I stop working in this industry completely.<br />
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I think that people have so many preconceived notions of what goes on and they've heard so many embellished stories from people that have no idea what they are talking about that they can't even fathom the truth. People see a hearse and automatically think it smells bad. So when they smell something, they assume that they know what it is. And that's exactly why we don't use chemicals to clean with.<br />
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And while I'm ranting, it is a hearse...H E A R S E. Not Hearst, There is no T. And to be precise, it is actually a funeral coach.<br />
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I feel better now.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-68720793388575690862014-11-24T04:00:00.000-05:002014-11-24T04:00:00.870-05:00The Day the Corpse Lent Me A TieI often start my day at 5 AM. I have a routine with my dog Pugsley that I dare not miss. I look forward to our routine. It is quality time for the two of us that is only rivaled by our ritual afternoon walks. A funeral service at 10:00 means that visiting starts at 9:00 and we typically have to be there much earlier to have everything set up. A church service requires us to transport everything, including the deceased to the church the morning of the service. We often are just finishing set up as the family arrives in the parking area, at which point I scramble to make sure everyone is parked where they need to be for the procession to the cemetery.<br />
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This was not one of those early days. These days always throw me off my game. With a service at noon, everything is pushed back a few hours. When I awake in the morning, I go into a completely different mode. Everything is a little more relaxed. Not so rushed as it typically can be. There was no snow to clear, the hearse was washed, gassed and ready for service. A sense of calm permeates the morning. Until I realize that I've got to leave in 30 minutes and I haven't even showered yet. I quickly rushed through my shower and shave and got myself dressed for the day. I was out the door right on schedule. I drove to the garage, switched cars and proceeded to the funeral home to pick up our guest of honor today and take him to the church. As I drove, I reached to straighten my tie. That's when I realized that I wasn't wearing one. I do not have enough time to scurry back home and get one. So I press on, hoping that someone at the funeral home will have a spare. Then I double checked everything else. Did I put on pants? Am I driving the right vehicle? Am I going to the correct funeral home? Wait! What day is it? What time was I supposed to be there?! Everything else checked out and I proceeded.<br />
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When I arrived at the funeral home, I informed the director of the situation. He did not have one, but assured me we would find one somewhere. We searched the employee areas, high and low. He went upstairs into the apartment thinking that surely there would be one there. He found one with a huge stain on it and would not let me be seen with such a mess, representing his establishment. To the basement we went. Into the preproom where another deceased man was awaiting his turn to be viewed by his family and friends. There it was, the perfect tie. The director looked at me, I looked at him. We both shrugged and I thanked the man for the use of his tie for the day and promised to return it before his viewing this evening.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080856067525022836.post-51895285291791082312014-11-21T05:00:00.000-05:002014-11-21T05:00:02.766-05:00Manifesting ChangeI believe that we manifest, or bring in to our lives, whatever we think about. I have watched it for years in every person that I have ever met. I believe that people are awesome. They care about pretty much everything and everyone, always. It's just that they are so busy believing what they have been told, and therefore manifesting it, that they genuinely haven't noticed that in our gorgeous little planet's entire history, there has never been:<br />
- A drought that didn't end<br />
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- Lightning that didn't retreat<br />
- An earthquake that didn't still<br />
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These are all things that will come to an end. And in the end, we will be here. We'll be here a little smarter, a little stronger and a little better off. These are not things we need to worry about.<br />
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We need to stop believing the folklore of the past. Take a good look at reality and create our own future.<br />
Start living a life filled with meaning. A life that will be remembered long after we are gone.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02964941329127641280noreply@blogger.com0