The sun has broken through here in Michigan today. Although the temp is still below freezing, the sun sure feels good. Went for a long walk in the woods and enjoyed all that winter has to offer. Those forsythia's are just waiting for spring. The buds form in the fall and wait patiently for warmer weather to come. And so do we.

I wish you the brighter side

Daily, I observe the people around me. I don't know their storties or what's going on in their minds. I watch them as they rush through my life and back out and wonder. I wonder if they are enjoying their lives or are they just rushing through? What are they rushing to?

Life is to be enjoyed. Every last bit of it.

If you were diagnost with a terminal illness or involved in an accident that left you helpless, could you be happy with the life that you've led?

If you knew that it was last time that you would pet a dog, smell a rose, fly a kite, drive a car or make love, would you stop to enjoy it a little more?

We rush through our lives in such a hurry that we forget to appreciate the little things. We don't say hello to a stranger that could have been a good friend, given the chance. A snowfall seems to upset us because we know that we'll have to shovel it and clear the car.

Perhaps we should stop and say hello and enjoy that snow for the beauty that it brings or the exersize that we'll get.

There is always a brighter side. Always. I work in a buisness where there is a lot of sadness. Yet I try everyday to find the brighter side. To find pleasure in the simplest things in life. To enjoy everything that I do.

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how grey the day may appear.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good- bye.

I wish that you would take the time to enjoy the brighter side.

A tree, on guard.

A tree stand guard of our shoreline. Protecting us from
that impending Canadian invasion.

Let me apologize again for my absence. This time, it was not my fault. My Internet provider decided that they didn't want to provide me with Internet. So, I've made the move to something better. Sometimes we need a push to make a move. I always welcome change so I send out a big thank you to Comcast for having lousy service.

Today was one of those days when you just need a break. So after doing my chores, I headed for the beach. It's neer 30 degrees Fahrenheit out there (the warmest it's been in a long time and we're headed for the deep freeze for the next week or so) So it made for perfect beach weather. For January anyway. Our lakes here in Michigan remind many people of oceans because they are so large that you can't see the other side. But we don't have the surf that oceans do so they tend to freeze. There is a lot of motion out there though so the ice then cracks and breaks up.

 Once the ice starts to move, the current carries it to where the next river starts. These rivers join all the Great Lakes together. We happen to live near where Lake Huron ends and the St. Clair River begins. The ice tends to bottleneck at these narrow spots. This causes a dam effect. Since freighters are constantly traversing our waters, the ice cutters are up and down the river constantly all winter long to keep things moving.

Yeah Canada, We have a whole army of trees.

 The beach was quiet today. Just me and the trees enjoying the weather together. It really allows you to think. A mile inland, it was quite sunny. But Lake Huron tends to kick up some strange stuff and dump it on our good friends on the other side of the boarder. This always looks very dramatic from this side.

 Here's a spot of beach just a mile up from the park where a friend lives on the water. From here you can really see the way the weather works over the lake.

 A mile down the other way from the park is where the river starts. The Blue Water Bridges span the entrance of the river. Beyond to the North is the lake and to the South is the narrow river. This is a beautiful spot to sit and watch the freighters go by and disappear into the vast lake or to appear out of the fog to navigate the narrow stretch between the US and Canada. At night the bridges are lit up with blue lights creating an arch over our fair cities on both sides.

 Port Huron was the childhood home of Thomas Edison and the train station where he worked as a child remains nestled under the bridges.

So far they are doing a pretty good job of keeping the ice from damming up the river this year. And the smooth water always makes for a beautiful picture of the bridges.

                                                      

When I got home, I heard quite a ruckus coming from the bushes next to the house. My husband feeds the little birds all year and thus we have quite the following of fowl. I found this bold hawk trying to rustle up some dinner. He wasn't afraid of me and I (foolishly) wasn't afraid of him either. I got in one good whack with the snow shovel before he headed off to a nearby tall tree. I'll have to be mindful of his presence when I let Pugsley out in the yard for a few days. This things was well over a foot tall and had a huge wingspan. It was while I was chasing it away that I realized that I was battling a wild animal and probably should let him do his thing. Oh well. So far everyone is still alive.

Thanks for reading my ramblings today. Keep warm.

Staying Positive

How do I stay positive?
By surrounding myself everyday with positive images and sounds. I simply choose to not accept any drama into my personal space. If someone else has an issue that they are dealing with, I can sympathize, but I don't make it my own.
Even in the funeral business, we must deal with the facts in front of us. But, what we must remember is that, the people that are still alive, must go on. We each have our own lives. We each have a legacy to leave.
As the poem goes, How will you spend your dash? (Between the dates on your headstone)
Every day "the score" is even. Every second, in fact.Everyone lives each day for him or herself, no matter what they did.
No one owes anything to anyone, no matter what happened.
And from this, what I hope you most get, is that whatever you do next, you do it for the joy it brings you.


And doing this, just watch how popular you become. Not that you will care.